Love

Past Opinions
==> I have been very ambitious person, since the time i remember i can remember myself. I realized pretty early love/sex is a very powerful emotion. I still remember that as a child i wanted to become richest person on earth. I realized very early from all the suicides and murders. That love is not something that takes you to the glory. So, my response to that completely avoiding looking into girl's face. For which boy, does not found any girl face beautiful and next step may be/can be be love, you know. I thought it was very pretty dangerous. If you fall in love u screw ur boards (10th exam). And you screw your career.

Present Opinion
==> Yeah it is completely geeky and nerdy, yeah i know. In retrospect i think i was wrong. And when it puts me in a vicious circle, where i stop loving myself , others never love you. Like others i have also thought of making attempt of falling in love. But again and again, my common sense stopped me. But my heart sometimes ache for a girlfriend that i never had. Its like you don't fall in love, but you want to fall in love. Its with someone you want to share all your love in the world.

Present Opinion Contd..

==> But i was recently going through an article on times of india . And i have have again very strongly feeling that : “ Love is when 2 morons one girl and one boy fall in love in their self (not other), to completely ignore common sense and society”. And love is very powerful emotion, the most powerful emotion to anyone known to man. It can make you become artistic genius like Shakespeare, Kalidas ( all of whom were jilted lovers) and on other side it can also drove you to suicide. It can also drove you to murder. I just now read an article on times of India: where a girl was given capitol punishment for murdering 6 of her family members. Among the family members was even one infant. Well, sure this comes off surely as bizarre, abhorrent and surreal as it can be. But whether or not girl killed her family, everyday 100's of people die in the world for love. I have never seen a single incident in papers where a girl and boy falls in love it brings greater good to the society. Well i must admit one positive aspect of it. It reduces inter – caste divide. But its like greater the risk, greater the return. And love is not necessary requirement for this to take place. The number of people dying every body far out weighs, positive effects of love. And i am not talking of honor killing here. Honor killing is just one of the weighs by which the sadistic people in society punish those dare to achieve love which the sadist were never ever able to achieve.

Conclusion
==> Life is about being yourself. Life is about being yourself. I can write this thing 100 times. But still line would not make much impact on you, as it deserve, given what i can possibly make. I salute to all the lovers who have cried from top of the hill that they are in love. But love is it the thing we should not search for. It is not something which should ever be sought. If you see example of all great man in history. You will see many of them were unrequited lovers. I am again confused whether there should be love in life or not. But surely love is dangerous

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