Why friendship is over -rated ?

In the long run we are all fools. But first i must admitt i am more foolish than the most. But no person in history can claim himself to be perfect. We all have our share of mistakes. And except people situated in godly transcedence, our mouth is always bigger than our actions. We all love to believe what we have not done, we could have done if we have wanted. We all eager to express our opinions. And the only path to self realization is getting rid of our foolishness. And we cannot be sure of it. For the truth is often hidden with in layers of knwoledge and information and can be always be obtained by deep introspection. And we have to break lot of our wrong opinions. And what help is the person who cannot help but give wrong opinions.

I have been very different stages of life. I am yet to find a single person in life who will not misguide you. Is there any one who knows completely everything. When you are in trouble people will either try to laught at you and discourage you or they will give their wrong sympathetic advice. If you are feeling good they will try to prove they are better they you or they will try to dishearten you. I have not find a single person who does not indulge in above 2 behaviors. And i am not suggesting here that i do not indulge in above 2 behaviors. But yes, i try to avoid them. Neverthless is very difficult to not indulge in above behavior with people who try to pull your leg everything you try to go up. In the long run, i want to become the person who will everyone will feel is his friend but i don't want to consider anyone as my friend. I don't here i mean that i want to become a manipulative cheat. But i want to become a person who is ever helpful to everyone. Who gives respect to everybody's opinion. Who is liked by everyone. But i don't want to keep expectation of reciprocation from everyone.

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